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Mormon Mommy Who Loves the LDS Religion But Often Rejects LDS Culture and Is Thus Often Rejected by Shortsighted Ward Mebmers

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34 years old
Southern Cal
United States
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RELIGION: Mormon / LDS / Christian
MEMBER SINCE: 01/21/2009
LAST LOGIN: 08/03/2009 11:59:28

English and 5thGrade.

Far too many to list, but I love the old Classics above all else. Charles Dickens, Victor Hugo, Alexandre Dumas, even Tolkien and CS Lewis.

Chick Flicks. 'Nough said.

- Reading books to my kids.

- Going on dates with my best friend.

- Taking the family camping and spending days at the beach.

- Movie Night's with The Girls (Thanks, Hubby, for being supportive).

- Bargin Shopping (Long Live Second Hand Thrift Stores!)

- Married Time (Yup. I said it. Keeps getting better with age!)

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I was married in the Manti Temple in 1994 to the man who was then and is now my very best friend. We have three children all under the age of 12. My hubby and I both teach grade school, which makes for a fantastic life together. We are home when the kids are, we both have summers off, and we both love our jobs. We are not rich and we never will be, but by living within our means we have never lacked for anything, and our kids have a happy, full and abundant life.

Being a staunch Republican in California who also works in education makes me a bit of an outcast at work. And being a tradition-bucker at Church makes me a bit of an outcast in the ward! I do now (and plan to always) hold a current Temple Recommend, but that does not mean I have to swallow everything that is spoon fed to me on Sundays.

I tend to question just about everything... and while that makes a lot of people really uncomfortable, it also (at least I think) makes me a better educated, more informed person who's testimony is grounded in scripture study, personal prayer, and personal revelation. I believe what I believe because I have questioned, poked, prodded, asked, dug, and eventually came up with MY conclusions... rather then simply taking what is fed to me at face value.

So far, my conclusions have never prevented me from renewing my recommend, but they have caused some people to raise their eyebrows at me! Their problem, not mine. All of my conclusions have been fact-checked against Scripture, and revelation-checked against the Lord.

In doing so, I have found that too much of what Mormons believe to be hard-n-fast Gospel is actually "the philosophies of men, mingled with scripture." Or in other words, a dose of truth sprinkled with tradition, which results in a hybrid half-truth that might work well for the person who created it, but should NOT be used as a ruler against which to measure the actions of all church members.

Sadly, I see others and myself being judged against these kinds of home-made rulers far too often, and, being the prideful person I am, I simply can't stay quiet when I see it happening. :-)

Ok, so yikes! You are still reading. Don't you have something better to do!


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From: JohnnyRudick
08/01/2009 21:39:59

I have no problems with what I have read so far:)


Don't ya just Love the Manti Temple:)




From: freckleface
07/29/2009 09:02:09

You totally rock, sister!!!   

 



From: freckleface
07/29/2009 09:00:16

You are a wonderful example of how we should all be.  Thank you for your comments, Janice. 

It's nice to know there are some kind, loving, and sweet spirits out there.  You are one of them.

Some of the hard liners have some growing to do.



From: Carl62
05/29/2009 10:41:16

Welcome to the site, Janice. I'm new here also. I loved reading your intro comments. They hit the nail on the head for me about how I feel about the church. I believe there's a LOT more that feel this way but simply don't want to come out and admit it. Hope you have fun here.



From: greatfaithgirl09
03/29/2009 20:10:21

hi am tanishea am looking forward on getting to know u



From: RobertP
02/17/2009 13:29:13
I like your little intro.  I feel at least somewhat the same way, although I think I have learned when to keep my mouth shut.  Not sure if it helps or hurts, but if I push into the ether and it pushes back, the mouth won't go anyway so I know no one is going to get what I thought I was trying to say.  Oh well.  Welcome the site.


From: bytor2112
02/04/2009 19:16:36
Janice......welcome to the site and I quite agree with you!

-Bytor



From: Steve
01/30/2009 09:12:31
Welcome to the site.  Hope you enjoy your time here.


From: Truegrits
01/27/2009 11:26:33

Hi Janice...I like your page, and yes, I read it all!  Obviously I DO NOT have anything better to do!!!  LOL


 


I also love the beach, and hot, sunny weather.  I lived in Miami and Naples for 40 years.  I LIVED at the beach.  South Beach...boy, those were the days!


 


Hope you have fun here...


 



From: Dr T
01/26/2009 21:45:18
You're welcome and I'm glad that you are having fun Janice:)



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