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Pulling The Plug -- An Open Letter To The Board
Posted On 01/08/2008 23:13:41 by john doe
I just sent this letter to a moderator. I didn't want to post it on the main board because it would likely be met with flames and "not-me's" and then devolve from there. But I did want others here to know how I feel about what's happening lately. I am troubled by what has been going on, and I think I should speak up before I abandon ship.

Here it is:
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I'm thinking of pulling the plug on this site for a while until it changes for the better. I thought this site had things going in the right direction, and then somebody decided to invite the problems back.

The tone of LDSTALK had taken a decidedly bitter and nasty turn since it has come to light that Ari/LDSSister/Aristotle and Peace/Please/Syble have made their comebacks with new identities but the same old personalities and biases towards others. They have both taken to attacking a certain MrsS, who has done nothing but try to point out that they are the ones causing the bad feelings here. The snide remarks, the rude repartees, the cheap shots at others really bother me, not just because they are happening, but it seems they are happening without any moderator stepping in and telling them to knock it off. They are doing what they can to chase her from these boards, and in the process they may be preventing others who lurk from posting because they don't want to get in their sights. This is an LDS board, and I would expect that it would ask its members to treat others here differently than they do elsewhere.

Maybe this isn't the place I should be right now, maybe my idea of what a website aimed at LDS should be like is different than what the moderating team and the owner's are. I don't know. But I do know that right now I don't like what I am reading from self-proclaimed "good" LDS people who snap at others almost constantly. Are these the kind of people you want taking over your boards? If it is, then I am most likely visiting the wrong place.


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From: Sugarbay
02/11/2006 10:25:12
QUOTE(MrsS @ Feb 9 2006, 01:08 AM)

John, thank you so much for your concerns. At first I really was hurt and totally befuddled by Ari's and Syble's unjust and totally off the wall attacks on me. I spent nearly 4 hours cutting and pasting their remarks and putting them into my word program and then I proceded to vent my spleen on them.

Then something that either Jason of SGallan said, about Ari posting about bringing the law into bedrooms. I hunted this entire forum for that. I came to the conclusion that it must have been in one of her previous incarnations. OR she had conviently edited it out.

Any way ~ to get back to my point. In reading all of Ari's posts I find that she is uneducated really. 90% of her posts are just cut and paste of magazines. She is reading the wrong stuff ~ heck if she put all that effort into reading the scriptures she would be much better off.

Also from one of her posts she stated that she is a 12-Step Sponsor or some such. The key word being 12-step. She is a recovering Alkie &/or Junkie. I lived with an alcoholic for 28 years. He was verbally, emotionaly, mentally and physcially abusive. He was manipulative. Oh, if he could have put all that brillance into working an honest job ~ he would have been a millionaire by the time he was 40!

Ari is a paranoid. She attacks before anyone can attack her. She is so into denial it is laughable. She has a little bit of knowledge and somewhere along the line gained a little bit of a vocabulary. She doesn't listen. That is so obvious. If she would only give. Give the links to the resources where she is garnering her information.

Ignore her stupidity rather than call her on it outright. Praise her when she is correct. And make it a point to only praise the correct parts. When you do call her on her really blatant false doctrine, then give the links to the correct doctrine!

She will still deny it. She is the Queen of denial. But at least the investigators, newly baptized and anti's will have the CORRECT Gospel Doctrine.

No, when I read 90% of her posts, I saw a poor, lonely woman. Look at her posts ~ she spends nearly all of her time on the forum, when she isn't at work at the psychologists office.

Another thing ~ She is a shameful Name Dropper.

Again, thank you so much for your support of me, and your comforting words to me. I am not going to let her chase me off. Lets educate her. Yes, it will take a lot of love wub.gif
Please stay ~ this forum needs you.

MrsS


Mrs. S.

You are to be admired but be careful, you will just become another target. You seem too nice to put yourself in harm's way. Someday you will type inthe word "shoehorn" or something else equally inane and you will be slashed to ribbons with the bright sunshiney, sugar-coated scalpel that a certain someone enjoys wielding.There seems to be no way out of it except to stand there and bleed to death or to leave.

Good luck. cool.gif


From: Roseslipper
02/10/2006 17:00:53
QUOTE(lisajo @ Feb 6 2006, 12:56 AM)

removed by lisa jo due to contention that should not be on this board

John dont let the ignarance of others keep you away from posting, or using this site in any way. Some times wrong wins out, but only for a short time..The right will prevail in the end.....We all should stick to our beliefs what ever they may be. smile.gif Remember try not to judge, for we usually dont know the whole story, and if we judge hard, then we will be judge hard...I appricate you john...


From: Jason
02/10/2006 11:57:40
QUOTE(MrsS @ Feb 8 2006, 11:08 PM)


Then something that either Jason of SGallan said, about Ari posting about bringing the law into bedrooms. I hunted this entire forum for that. I came to the conclusion that it must have been in one of her previous incarnations. OR she had conviently edited it out.


Actually I belive that was Snow who said that.

I protested against letting Ari back on the board. She's a rotten apple. Nothing we can do about that I guess, except protest by leaving and lowering the traffic on the board.

Then Heather can rename it "Ari and Syble's Talk".




From: Iggy
02/08/2006 23:08:44
John, thank you so much for your concerns. At first I really was hurt and totally befuddled by Ari's and Syble's unjust and totally off the wall attacks on me. I spent nearly 4 hours cutting and pasting their remarks and putting them into my word program and then I proceded to vent my spleen on them.

Then something that either Jason of SGallan said, about Ari posting about bringing the law into bedrooms. I hunted this entire forum for that. I came to the conclusion that it must have been in one of her previous incarnations. OR she had conviently edited it out.

Any way ~ to get back to my point. In reading all of Ari's posts I find that she is uneducated really. 90% of her posts are just cut and paste of magazines. She is reading the wrong stuff ~ heck if she put all that effort into reading the scriptures she would be much better off.

Also from one of her posts she stated that she is a 12-Step Sponsor or some such. The key word being 12-step. She is a recovering Alkie &/or Junkie. I lived with an alcoholic for 28 years. He was verbally, emotionaly, mentally and physcially abusive. He was manipulative. Oh, if he could have put all that brillance into working an honest job ~ he would have been a millionaire by the time he was 40!

Ari is a paranoid. She attacks before anyone can attack her. She is so into denial it is laughable. She has a little bit of knowledge and somewhere along the line gained a little bit of a vocabulary. She doesn't listen. That is so obvious. If she would only give. Give the links to the resources where she is garnering her information.

Ignore her stupidity rather than call her on it outright. Praise her when she is correct. And make it a point to only praise the correct parts. When you do call her on her really blatant false doctrine, then give the links to the correct doctrine!

She will still deny it. She is the Queen of denial. But at least the investigators, newly baptized and anti's will have the CORRECT Gospel Doctrine.

No, when I read 90% of her posts, I saw a poor, lonely woman. Look at her posts ~ she spends nearly all of her time on the forum, when she isn't at work at the psychologists office.

Another thing ~ She is a shameful Name Dropper.

Again, thank you so much for your support of me, and your comforting words to me. I am not going to let her chase me off. Lets educate her. Yes, it will take a lot of love wub.gif
Please stay ~ this forum needs you.

MrsS


From: lisajo
02/05/2006 22:56:06
removed by lisa jo due to contention that should not be on this board


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