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Moderation in all things
Posted On 02/08/2009 01:20:18 by MormonMema
One of these days I'm going to learn to keep the other part of the Word of Wisdom, as found in Doctrine and Covenants 88:124---"Cease to be idle, cease to be unclean; cease to find fault one with another; cease to sleep longer than is needful; retire to thy bed early, that ye may not be weary; arise early that your bodies and your minds may be invigorated."    The Book of Mormon has some good advice on this subject, too, in Mosiah 4:27--"And see that all these things are done in wisdom and in order, for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength. And again, it is expedient that he should be diligent, that thereby he might win the prize; therefore, all things must be done in order."

There, in a nutshell, is a key to a healthy and successful life.  Basically, to me, this means moderation in all things, including blogging, web surfing, watching movies, or any other good thing that, taken to extremes, as I too often do, can become an addiction.   Like any addiction, the Internet can take over your time and your life before you are even aware of it.  Or, you may be aware of it, but feel powerless to control it. 

It is such a subtle thing, so easy to rationalize.  After all, we're using the Internet for good things, like networking, meeting people, missionary work, sharing creative talents, etc.   But, I get frustrated, and upset with myself when I miss out on the day.  Today was a lovely, warm Spring-like day, and I had errands to run, and things to do.  So, what did I do?  I did a little bit of housework and some laundry, and spent the day, long into the night, trouble shooting my computer and catching up on my blogging, spending time IMing my daughters, and visiting my Social Networks sites.   I never did get outside, never did get my shopping and other things done.   What is wrong with me! 

Now it's very late, I'm tired, and I'll have to be up early for church.   When will I learn.



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From: PeaceRoseRest
02/11/2009 05:38:23

Dear MM,


 


I'm certain your family values your time, too.  I can only wish that my family would send me some e-mails.  Of course, you're right that we need to do all things  in moderation (be diligent, that we might win the prize). 


 


There's nothing wring with you.  We just need to learn to "put the big rocks in first".  Did you ever see the demonstration of how to truly fill up an empty jar?  The students had rocks of various sizes (large size, to pebbles, to sand) and also had a jug of water.  It was obvious to see that if the students wanted to fit any of the large rocks into the jar, they would have to go in first.  They could not be added after the pebbles or the sand.  By the time the experiment was over, all the big rocks were in the jar, pebbles came second (in as much as they would fit), then sand was added, and last of all, the water.  


 


I've adopted this as my pattern for accomplishing things.  My "big rocks" need to go in first.  I'm not denying myself the pleasure of other pursuits.  I'm just putting the big rocks in first.  That way the balance remains good.  Remember also the old expression about "All work and no play..."  I find it interesting that the little experiment mention above included water.  The water was added last and, at that point, the students felt that, indeed, nothing more could be added to the jar.  Even though there were lots of other things in the jar, it wasn't until the water was added that it was proclaimed as being truly "full".  The Savior called Himself the "living waters".  Without it we would surely die. 


 


Put your big rocks in first, but don't forget your "living waters".  Have a wonderful day!


 


PRR



From: Dr T
02/08/2009 16:27:02
Thanks for the words :)




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