Hi how old are you?  Where you from?  I hope that you understand my writing because i have too many accents languages and not good on english writing. I try an explain and wanted tell you something that I had been through same problem in my past time too. I learned lots from every parents, my parents, friends, relative as my own.  Seem like as nothing that change around the world.  The problem is lack of communicate each other as called tough love or confuse.  It can be many reasons that bother anyone that a person dislike or not understand as themselves.  Remember that i think any parents do love the children and can be have or has bad days because jobs, etc. I think your mom is right that you don't need to worrying and not your problem.  Try what you can do for yourself or do something as your goal or career that if you're interesting or do the hobbies if valuable in your life.  Keep you as busy as away from parents for few or several hours.  We are stress out about living and expense. don't worry about your parents if can't afford with money.  I know how harder on anyone who's can't afford it.  I have same problem but my daughter went through to the clinic or talk someone that help her understand and/ or sometime don't understand the feelings. For worse or better.   Lot of people don't understand their communicate each other that a reason not sure what to say because very hard for advice to give an opinion or possible afraid that will hurt their feeling as much when a person get anger, upset or disagree.  We have been very careful what we talk to anyone about the problem as disagree or agree.  Stay away from parents who's have problem and teenager doesn't belong their problem.  I understand bother to any teenagers involve it.  Don't get involve with any parents or friend or relative problem. We help them but mostly can't me or you or anyone by friends, parents or relative because don't know how to communicate as themselves to help them. 

If you're teenager aged 16-18 as adult.  They should have free clinic for teenagers as private. Every States are different but still same law that teenager have a rights to go anytime if you have a problem with your illness that parents can't afford it and any clinic can't refuse for as treatment and have a rights then bills it later. The clinic can help you for special program. We aren't alone.  Don't worry about money or any reasons.  It is very hard pressure on everyone who's teenagers about concern or curious about the money. Take care of yourself for health. Or talk to your school nurse.  Stress can cause anyone as mentally, stop the period, headache, loss weigh, etc.  Doesn't matter if don't have money.  If you're boy or girl as teenager that don't feeling comfortable and talk to RS President or counselor, if you're LDS and there's have lot of program for teenagers.  Not easily about their feelings.  It is harder on everyone as lack of communicate or not understand.  If you're 16 by law you have a rights.  I hope that make sense to you???  If anyone don't understand and pray with the Lord as your need for help.  If not, i try my best as writing and sorry harder on my writing within lot of my languages as rough written to remember. I am getting old lol. Good luck

not sure what i can tell you ruthie but..........................

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