06-30-2008, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by ignoranceWASbliss
I really don't feel I should go to the bishop on my own. It would be like tattling or a total betrayal to the trust I may have established. I promised him I would tell no one.
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Originally Posted by ignoranceWASbliss
I really don't think I would be able to tell my husband. He also looks up to his father & to know this would just devestate him. I don't feel it my place to reveal this to anyone especially his family or our bishop. I feel that should be his place & if I did tell my husband it would be a betrayal to him & the confidentiality I promised him. I think I may have already done all I should do.
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Originally Posted by ignoranceWASbliss
I am 1000% discretion on this one! There is no doubt that I will tell NO ONE! It is HIS responsibility to tell his wife & the bishop.
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I think you are doing the right thing on all three of the above quoted choices. It is his job to go to his Bishop and although it might be a really hard thing to do, I think you are correct in keeping this between you and him. I think telling your MIL and husband would betray his trust. Maybe your "catching" him was a wake up call for him and maybe now he will take the appropriate steps.
Just my opinion...
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