My Dad was never a member of our Church but he never allowed drinks or smokes on his property. There was no question as to what was allowed. His house his rules. He also was not afraid of standing up for what he thought was the right thing to do. Again his house his rules. If there was a question about right and wrong in his house he'd definitely set you straight. I'm sure many feelings were hurt in the beginning but you didn't have to question him a second time. If your hubby says no go it should be no go. He's the one who will have to answer for it on the other side. 2 cents
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It takes a disciplined person to listen to convictions which are different from their own. ~ Dorothy Fuldheim
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?” Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
Marianne Williamson
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