Hi All- I've been away from the site for a while but saw this and wanted to reply. I just think it's great that you all are having such good attitudes toward your inactive or non-member spouses. I really struggle with my husband's inactivity and wish I could be laid back about it (in general I'm the most mellow, accepting, laid back person but when it comes to this I panic)! I guess maybe it's a little different when one gets married already knowing the spouse isn't interested, but my husband was a ward mission leader and the church was his life when we got married and then poof it all disappeared (am sure some of you remember that this is why I joined this site). ;-) At any rate, I think unconditional love is the key and as long as the marriage is a healthy, happy one in general then your return to church should only foster more love and compassion and understanding inside your own home. Good luck to all of you.
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