[prisonchaplain]

Here's a friendly outsider perspective:

> First, there are obviously former members of the church who convert to other religions. Those who become evangelical Christians, adapt a theology that calls for all Christians to "evangelize" or "become a missionary to" everyone in their circle of influence. Since they used to be LDS, and believe they have a cultural and religious understanding that makes them especially suited to the task, they take up becoming "missionaries to Mormons." Some do so with great tact, and sincere affection, and gain some respect (along with obvious opposition). Others, charge in like a bull in a China shop, and do not gain respect, but rather disdain.

> BTW, though LDS feel singled out, this same phenomenon happens with former Jews, former Muslims, former Hindus, and yes, former atheists/agnostics. You don't generally see "Anti-Lutherans," because evangelicals do not consider Lutherans to be heretical in their teachings.

> There are some more fundamentalist type Christians who believe they must "contend for the faith." Their goal is to simply present "the truth," and those who hear can either believe or burn. This is the camp that usally come into SLC with obnoxious signs, and worse. They are intentionally confrontational, believing they are simply to sound the alarm, so the righteous might repent of their errors.

> Finally, LDS tend to be more polite and "soft-sell," in part because of their theology. They believe everyone will have a chance to hear the gospel, and that there are several kingdoms of heaven, not all of which require full embrace of their restored gospel. So, it's okay to nicely present, without having to communicate dire urgency and the fearfulness of hell's flames.

> Evangelicals have more of an "all or nothing theology." It's heaven or hell, and the decision must be made in this lifetime. So there is an urgency, and a sense of responsiblity, that sometimes translates poorly into boorishness, arrogance and argumentation. Many of our leaders try to balance the sense of urgency with the truth that we really are but messengers, and it's the Holy Spirit's job to convict and convert.

Hope this helps.