NO NO NO NO NO!
Don't tell your wife. You all may not agree with me, but there are much much bigger issues here than a kiss. There are deeper issues as to why this happened in the first place. Talk to your Bishop, yes, and start working on the issues that will bring you greater spirituality.
A woman once wounded will never forget (and some will never forgive). If the problems underlying the thing that led you to the kiss get bigger, you will indeed divorce and that will be horrible for you kids!!
I once tried this "honesty in all things" policy with my ex, and it BACKFIRED completely, and now we, both of us, live in regret that our children have suffered both our stupidities. And, let me add this. When I went to my wife, I hadn't even kissed or held hands with another woman. I was beginning to have some feelings emerge for a co-worker, and I got scared and thought the best way to work it out was with my wife.. NO NO NO NO NO.. What should I have done?
Gone to my Bishop and worked out some kind of plan, then later, if the both of you are absolutely inspired that your wife should know, then the time will be right.
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