She has the right to know. There are many things that upset spouses that people should tell their spouses about anyway - overspending, infidelity, etc. Painful consequences aren't a good reason to withhold information. If she finds out somehow and you aren't upfront, she will think you did something else. That's what happens when spouses lie. The other spouse thinks, "If they lied about that, what else did they lie about?" When my friend got a bunch of credit cards without telling her husband, he was so upset, he was asking her if she had a boyfriend too or was on drugs. It is much better to hear it from your spouse than find out some other way.
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