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Old 07-24-2008, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by mightynancy View Post
If your wife would divorce you over a few kisses, there's something else wrong with your relationship. I'm absolutely not saying that what you did is okay. It isn't. But a husband who wants to work on his marriage shouldn't fear summary dismissal for telling the truth about a mistake. There are marriages that survive a full-fledged affair when both parties are committed.

Is she looking for an excuse to get divorced? It seems to me there must be more going on, on your end, on hers, or both.
There are many women who view any amount of cheating as deal breakers. It may not have anything to do with looking for an excuse to get a divorce, but their own firm belief that any kind of cheating should not be tolerated and is grounds for divorce. His wife probably felt this way before they even married. I personally disagree with such a notion as it is a rather unforgiving view point.
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