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Originally Posted by Islander

Without desire to contend and just for clarification, Pres. Monson did not served a mission just like 10,000 other Elders kept home because of WW II. I think you should not compare pears and apples. But there is no "better road" than the one that the Savior has pointed to his servants to travel on. And yes, it is quite valid to make a value judgment based on what they do/did, the choices and priorities they have and the choices they make in life. How else are we to form an opinion of who they are?

I hear you friend. I was just pointing out that not all of the apostles and men of authority have been on their literal 2 year mission. I don't see people whispering behind the prophets back over it, though.

You should get to know the man in my opinion. If he has 'RM qualities' I don't see the problem. Private schools generally prepare students better.. do you discriminate against public school students also?

Again, you had your reasons for not serving a mission and that is your prerogative. You know what the stance of the priesthood is on the matter. Your agency ends there. Complaining about what people may think or say about you because of your choice serves no purpose.

I complain because I think it's ridiculous. I could infer from a young girls choice to be married at age 19 that she is a whore.. but I don't. I could say that a young couple who doesn't get married in a temple was having pre-marital relations.. but I don't. I don't presume to know how 'worthy' they are or are not.

Then again them complaining would serve no purpose.. they should just accept being called a whore or unworthy. I think it's much the same.

By the way, the whispering of the Spirit about NOT going points to YOU not being ready to serve for God knows all things. The call to serve has been issued to ALL able priesthood holders but it is our duty and responsibility to measure up to be worthy and willing to heed to that calling. So by all means, stay and go on with your life trying your absolute best to reach and fulfill the measure of your purpose in God.

This church is built on eternal progression. You cannot be omniscient and still progress. I'll say instead that God knows everything about us. I'm mission-worthy. Perhaps God has other plans for me? Who is to say he doesn't? I for one am not that arrogant.

All I 'know' are the answers i've received through personal prayer. It wouldn't be the first time man was instructed to go against the 'norm'.