I have found by expierence the following small things, make a huge difference towards creating a happy marriage and keeping it romantic.
Date night.
One flower for no special reason, presented from behind while giving a light kiss on her neck, then wispering to her how much you love her works much better than a dozen roses annually on Mothers Day.
Telling her how nice she looks once in awhile.
Don't leave her sitting alone at social events for any length of time, while visiting with everyone else.
Telling her how much you respect and love her.
Supporting her in her endeavors nd letting her know, you are willing to each time you do.
Be true to your marriage covenants.
In accordance with the above, not flirting with other women.
Listening intently when she wants to talk seriously
Hold her tightly while letting her know she is the light of your life.
Hold her hand while walking
Be spontaneous once in awhile. Take her for a drive, ice cream cone, a walk in the woods,
Keep yourself fit.
Help her with the kids, dishes, etc. without being asked.
Send her a card with a simple statement indicating your love, or appreciation for what she does, etc. and telling her you love her.
Let others know how special you think she is, when she is around.
Do the same things with her, you did when you were dating and trying to woo her!! Sometimes this may mean a baby sitter is in order, or leaving the kids overnight with Grandma and Grandpa.
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