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Old 11-19-2008, 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Misshalfway View Post
IIn this case, maybe you speaking your mind IS helping him even if he outwardly continues the argument. Perhaps over time, he will slowly make the changes you wish to see.
While this may be true, the opposite could also be true. The more you speak your mind, the more it grates on him, and the farther away he goes, instead of coming back to the middle.

Seek the guidance of the Spirit in discussing with him your feeling and concerns about his attitudes and language.
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