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Originally Posted by robbiewinters
My wife has already said that if she ever found out anything like that she would leave me. I have 2 young children. Is it right for me to salve my conscience at the expense of a broken home for them. Would your advice be the same if you knew 100% that consequence would be divorce? Please think before you reply
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Every woman says this until it happens to them! Then they usually handle it in a way they never believed they would. You say this happened in the past, you have not done it in a long time, you have separated yourself from the temptation. You have done all the things that you should have done. These things alone give you credibility.
Show how how much you love and respect her by telling her.
It will hurt, but not as bad as if you had an affair. You stopped it before it got that far. She has to give you credit for that. THat would be a lot better that getting a phone call in the middle of the night by a drunk woman who wants to get revenge!
Ask me how i know!