Not telling her is a horrible idea. She will find out. The Spirit has probably told her something happened already, so it will be a relief to have those feelings explained to her. If she finds out another way and then he is explaining his side of the story after getting caught, he won't sound believable. "No, I swear. I only kissed her and that was it." How many times have guys said that when the wife finds a note or a strange woman calls her house? First they deny anything is going on. When the evidence surfaces, "Oh ok honey, I did have something going on with that woman, but we never went all the way. Honest!"
People who have nothing to hide don't.
A friend of mine kept having horrible feelings her husband cheated on her without an ounce of proof. She told him how bothered she was, he listened to her, tried to comfort her, and after months she was still having those horrible feelings. He drove her to the doctor's office to be put on anti-depressants knowing what she suspected was true. He met a woman in line on a nature tour (with his little boy there) and they had a fling. He let his poor wife torture herself and to continue hiding what he had done, let her go on unnecessary medication.
Always tell the truth.
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Wickedness never was happiness.
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