So after reading all your very helpful replies and praying about it, I've decided how to go about this.
I realized that my desire to dive in with both feet and just show up on a Sunday is probably OK, but perhaps not the ideal way to about this. I should go in via Missionaries and their guidance.
I think what I was doing was once again, trying to take charge and run things
my way. Doing this has frequently landed me in some trouble, especially when there was a recommended way of doing things. I have a tendency to ignore or downplay sound advice. So, this time - I am going to do what is suggested.
I filled out the "have a missionary contact me" form on the LDS website. In the description section, I mentioned that we may or may not be able to meet in my home. We'll see what happens.
A sincere "thank you" to everyone who replied!
If this starts taking off, I'll perhaps start a blog here about my adventures