Yes tell your wife, I am the girl who found out on my own and it hurt more than if he would of came and told me. Don't think that she can't feel that something is not right, she may not know what "it" is but she knows. You owe her your honesty ...she said yes to you when you asked her to marry you. She has given you years, some that may not have been the best for you OR her.
Sorry if you feel that I may have been a little hard on you.
As girls we NEED to know that we are enough, as we send our husbands off to work in a world of beautiful women. WE FEAR THIS VERY THING.
To know that your husband WANTS YOU sometimes out weighs the pain. To know that you choose her today and forever could be the point YOU needed to come to.
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