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Old 06-19-2009, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted by applepansy View Post
You're not specific about the problems. If you have lost trust in him I would suggest moving on.

Trust is fragile and very hard to recover. If you decide to continue with the realtionship, most definitely do not marry him until you do trust him completely. I'd also say that goes both ways. He needs to be able to trust you completely too.

Without a foundation a house cannot withstand the storms...without a good foundation of trust and respect a marriage cannot survive the storms of life.

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I totally agree with the trust scenario, After one horrible divorce many years ago that involved heartbroken kids; I never in a million years would have married my second wife if for even one second I could not trust; it is the basic foundation before even love can be sustained; two people absolutely must have complete trust in one another.
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