ToleranceGirl, you sound like a very nice and kind person. Welcome to this board and I want you to know that you've already got a friend in me just from the warm and friendly, non-judgemental, Christ-like attitude that you seem to have in your opening post. Believe me, you're the kind of people we need MORE of in the church, so please reconsider leaving the church. Have fun and hope to see you more around the board. A welcome hug from Carl62.