Brendan, I have read lots of good feedback here given by concerned friends.........i want to ask about different feelings.............your feelings..........you said that you discovered this when you were 15......that is already an awkward age......i would imagine that, looking back, you can remember all kinds of thoughts and feelings going through your head.......and i wont mention any because i dont want to "lead the witness", so to speak.........but i believe that it would do you a lot of good to get some councilling about these feelings for yourself......it may even help repair your relationship with your father and/or help you approach this situation in a way that will be better for all parties involved.......clearly you have some anger.....and thats as far as i will offer my interpretation of your feelings........you want to help your father?.......and not simply humiliate him?........get some councilling for yourself on ways to be of help to him.
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