Honestly I'm not mature enough for my husband to hang out with friends of the opposite sex alone. If my husband and I have a fight, and he went to a friend who was a girl to cry on her shoulder or to get her advice, I'd have a problem with that.
I trust myself, I trust my husband, and we have great friends. I don't trust human weakness and for myself, I'm more comfortable without opening this can of worms. This might not be for everyone, but I'm very satisfied in my social life and friendships without hanging out with guys and without hubby going out with women from work or where ever else he might know them from.
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