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Originally Posted by Alana
Honestly I'm not mature enough for my husband to hang out with friends of the opposite sex alone. If my husband and I have a fight, and he went to a friend who was a girl to cry on her shoulder or to get her advice, I'd have a problem with that.
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So do I. I feel fights and problems should stay between spouses (and their counselor/bishop as necessary). I know a fellow who cheated on his wife without intending to. He was helping a female friend with her relationship, he started having trouble with his relationship and while his wife was visiting her mother the two were being one another's emotional ears which led to sexual infidelity.
My second cousin never said anything bad about her husband to anyone, and she was even gracious about what she said about him after their divorce. It was a testament to me of how to treat your husband in public.
If my husband and I have a serious altercation I cry to my Heavenly Father. He's the only person who won't give me faulty advice.