Oh and my 'I'm not mature enough' comment, a little joking and a little serious. I don't want my husband talking behind my back, but if he does need someone to talk to, he knows I'm comfortable with him talking to his siblings, who I know.
Also, when people do cheat, I bet most of the time they really do love their spouse, but they get caught up in the action. When you're friends with the opposite sex, a lot of time an 'ego boost' comes with that relationship, and the feelings that illicits go hand in hand with a more serious relationship.
|