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Call me old fashioned or just call me old..either way..I just think it's inappropriate for a married person to be going out to an activity with a person of the opposite gender without their spouse. No matter how secure you might be in your marital relationship.

I second what Traveler said about the problem being what other people think. Someone seeing you out with someone other than your spouse (even innocently in your eyes) may turn out in a negative way. People and human nature have a tendency to talk. It's kind of like the gossip game where you whisper something in an ear and pass it around..just to see how much it has changed by the time it makes it around the circle.

I don't know...just not appropriate to me and that's my opinion that I'm am sticking with.