Originally Posted by Solsalia
I am in a horse forum and decided to find an LDS Forum. I need all the spirtitual help I can get. I am and endowed LDS member and my husband is not a member. We have 4 small children ranging in ages 1 to 5. Recently my husband has decided that he wants a divorce. He then came back and said he wanted to try again, now he is acting distant again. All this in the matter of 3 weeks. I'm not as tore up as I was before because I know I will be okay either way. I have prayed and felt confirmation several times. It's the waiting game that drives me crazy. I am trying to the best wife I can be with no regrets, some days are harder then others. I never thought of an actual divorce. I knew it would be hard as we had different beliefs but not divorce. I love him with all my heart and it's hard to see it not returned. There of course is a lot more to the story but for now I start my first post on this forum with my trial, enduring, and hopefully happy ending to this mess.
You can't really divorce anyway. Jesus was against divorce.
32But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 7
10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
So you have to work it out. Maybe go to couples counselling.
I hope it all works out. Sorry that things seem to be falling apart.