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No, it teaches that if you are disobedient, rebellious, and not mindful of the law, there can be physicall painful consequences. Little ons get spanked, big ones go to prison.[/b]
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There is no reason why the consequence has to be painful. Little ones need love, which hitting does not represent. They also need to be taught WHY what they did was wrong, and that it is possible to resolve conflict without violence, which is a very important life skill.
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I would argue that spanking, properly done, can foster trust in adults, and teach children that physical restraint or punishment only happens in limited, properly governed circumstances. [/b]
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Trust in adults? Sorry, don't see your reasoning here.
Spanking is the easy way out for parents. It takes a bit of time and creativity to think of a better and more effective punishment, but it is worth it in the long run, IMO.