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My wife has already said that if she ever found out anything like that she would leave me. I have 2 young children. Is it right for me to salve my conscience at the expense of a broken home for them. Would your advice be the same if you knew 100% that consequence would be divorce? Please think before you reply
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Absolutely. We must be honest in our dealings and be willing to accept the consequences. Ignoring or hiding a sin will not make it go away. We have to pay for them eventually. It's better for us if we do not procrastinate our repentance.
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110% agree. We must be honest and true in our dealings. We must not have anything to hide, one day all will be revealed. As for your kids, that is up to you and your wife. If she leaves you it will be hard on everyone but you can not justify covering it up. You owe it to your wife and your children to clear it up now.
It sounds like you have come here looking for support in telling you it is ok not to tell your wife. You seem to be searching for excusses when you know already what the right thing to do is. The choice is clear.