Robbie,

First of all it wasnt an affair, and that is at least grounds for divorce in my opinion. If the single kiss was something like a hello or goodbye kiss, then I dont see an issue since you have changed. If it was something passionate, then you have a problem. In my opinion, the passionate kiss goes against the whole marraige concept. If it was a passionate kiss, then you should probably should go to the bishop. further, if you were alone together, and it was very romantic, I got to say that would bother me if my spouse did that. I would want to know.

Just so you know, my wife cheated on me and she never said anything to me. I found out through other means. We had been divorced for nearly 3 years and after that amount of time I then found out. I really wasnt that upset, because we were already divorced, and I aready knew what she was capable of. If she had told me I would have forgiven her. But, on the other hand, she never did probably because she would have been fearful that I would have concerns in that area going forward - and she would have been right. A loss of freedom, even a percieved loss, can affect people in different ways. For her, she rolled the dice thinking that I wouldnt go through with the divorce. But the fact is, heavanly father knew what went on, and thats why I got my answer for the divorce.

If I were you, I would start getting humble, and fasting a bit and find out what heavanly father says. Its possible this might eventually make you and your wife closer after she finds out and you give it some time. The hard part will be in the beginning.

However, if it was a friendly co-worker peck on the check, and IMHO, forget all that I said and move on. If you look at Christ's laws in the New Testiment, they were strict, but he was always very forgiving. I think it would be a good thing to find yourself under his good graces.