Sinned but not Repentant

[tomk]

You cannot undo what has been done. But you can make correct choices going forward. Decide now to do whatever it takes to repent and become clean through the Lord's grace and power.

Since you are not a member of the Church...I am not sure how much we or a Bishop could help you.

You would need to take the Missionary discussions, which include learning about the Law of Chastity and committing to a life of abstinence before marriage and complete fidelity after marriage. If you commit to this, and are repentant, then you can be baptized a member of the Church and receive the gift of the Holy Ghost, which will sanctify you from ALL sin.

Until you become a member, I am not sure how much we can do or a Bishop can do. I think the Lord holds us to as much light and knowledge as we possess, whether we are members of the Church or not. So you will be held accountable for sinning against that light and knowledge. But once you enter into that covenant relationship, you begin with a clean slate.