Most Stress in 35 years of marriage...

[rameumptom]

I am of the opinion that we need to teach our children self-responsibility. If the child is not paying his own tickets, and has the ability to work and pay for them, then he deserves to have his car impounded and perhaps spend a few days in jail.

If you don't force him to be an adult by making his own choices and receiving the consequence of those choices, he will never be able to become exalted.

[SisterofJared]

1K a month and single could be dadgum tight.... if they are paying rent,etc.

But living with mommy and daddy paying the bills, no utilities... these kids have it made!

Sad thing is, nothing that comes so easily is valued... not even a college education.

SoJ

[Elgama]

OK I know this is an old thread, but I am going to take a different tack, because you say your wife's maternal instincts are usually good - is your son depressed or has another problem? I know my husband struggled after his mission and was very much the way you describe your son, finally collapsing completely after his Dad died a year into his mission. It was a horrible time for us - but he did eventually climb out of it he has a good job and for 6 months cycled 6 miles a day to get there I am very proud of him.

Have you asked your wife what her maternal instinct is?

When my husband and I have disagreement that seems insurmountable we both get blessing before we even start - have you offered your wife a blessing?

-Charley