I suppose for many people.. who have never "experienced" such things.. it is easy to conjure up all kinds of images of what is being done and said.
I am not trying to convince anybody here to change the way they feel about it.. but let me give you "my" experience.
My son was accused by his step sister of having intercourse with her. He was 17.. she was 11. He told me.. Dad.. I did not do this. What more could he say? The Government determined in a secret grand jury that he did have sex with her. They set his bail at 1 million dollars. A year later (yes he was in jail the entire time) he had his trial. This child said he did it with her 35 - 40 times in a two year period. She did not give a date that it happened nor a particular weekend nor was she required to. In other words.. there was no way that my son could establish an alibi. It was.. his word versus her word.
All I had was his word. He said no.. I did not do it.. she said yes.. you did. This is in a house of 2 adults and 6 children.. and nobody ever saw anything.
How could I really know if my son was lying or not? In my mind.. I was told "he didn't do it."
I then went to two psychic mediums. A gal by the name of Laurie McQuary. She has appeared on psychic detectives many times. She has helped the police solve many cases. I went to her... and she told me exactly who did it.. that my son did not.. she told me where this person lived.. everything. She also told me that this little girl was exaggerating and adding more to her story to get the attention of her mother.
I went to another medium.. (I did not tell either of these mediums why I was there) She connected with my ex wife. The medium said to me.. I have a woman here who is telling me.. it's not my son.. it's not my son. She then went on to explain that my son has been accused of crime he did not commit. She told me that this other person was close to my son, did it.. but that it was not my son.
Now I had 3 different sources that told me he was innocent. Yet, he was convicted and sentenced to 12 years.. no probation allowed nor no time off for good behavior. That was 4 years ago. The jury simply believed her story. His story was: "I didn't do it".
Now.. some people will say.. Yea.. God did the right thing by putting your son away. If he got convicted.. he must be guilty. God's justice is good.
I had the proof I needed to know he was innocent. I gave this info to the police.. but they felt they had their man.. and would do nothing. I could not prove a thing. I still today know that he is innocent.. and there are people who don't believe me.
Mediums tell me it is like a water faucet in their mind. They open the faucet.. and the messages come pouring out. To have their mind quieted.. they "turn off" the faucet.
So personally.. I believe people do have the ability to do this. But I am sure that God does not want us spending our time pursuing this.. as it as no value in our salvation. Me learning what I did.. did nothing for me on an eternal level. And like most things.. we humans have the ability to "obsess" with many things. It is easier.. to go to a medium.. and hear something from the other side.. than getting on our knees and praying.
There are many things that are real and are of God.. that go on in the background. ie.. Guardian Angels. We all talk about them.. believe in them.. but are not told much about them.. Like who they are.. why they do what they do.. etc. There are many things that Joseph Smith said that he was not allowed to tell us about.. Things that we did not need to know about.. yet they were still real and there.
I no longer visit mediums. But I can not deny what I have learned from them.. It is just more information I received on things that don't really play an important part in my salvation. Kinda like knowing that Jesus Christ created worlds without end. We only see and hear about our world.. and are told not to concern ourselves with all the others as their existence is not relevant to us. It is information we have..but in no way does it affect our salvation by either knowing about it.. or not knowing about it.
But Satan can easily convince people to "believe" more in the mediums that in the spirit of the Holy Ghost. And there is where lies the deception. That is his "hook" to be deceived. We know that Satan does divulge truth.. to capture. Teach a little truth here.. a little there.. and so he allows the truth to be taught through the mediums. The more you listen to the mediums.. the more you believe.. the more you believe.. the easier at some point in time to be deceived. Is that not what we believe about all the other churches? They have "some" truth.. just not all. That there is a little truth here and a little truth there. People from other religions feel the Spirit of the Holy Ghost testify to them. What is he testifying to? The truth that is being taught at that time.. right?
Is that not what non-Mormons claim about us anyway? They too feel that we have been deceived by Satan and have been blinded by our faith by believing in a "seer", a "revelator", named Joseph Smith? A man who saw and talked to Historical and Biblical people who are "dead". The parallel is amazing.
So I do understand the warnings... and I do heed them.