wife needs support for a porn addict spouse

[Rose1234]

I found out about my husbands addiction about 8 months ago. It has been the hardest thing I have gone through. I have been trying to understand and heal. Your spouses addiction is Not because you aren't good enough! It's an addiction that is worse than drugs. It's a way to escape emotion for them. I'm reading a book that has really helped me understand his addiction better, and helped him understand what he can do to help him recover. I wanted to share it in hope that it can help others as it has me and my Husband. This book is for the husband and the wife to help each other heal through this incredibly hard thing. It's called "Love You, Hate the Pron" by Mark Chamberlain, and Geoff Steurer. I feel for whoever has to deal with this terrible problem. It brings on so many incredibly strong emotions to go through.

I know that by turning to God, you can have moments of peace while going through this process. I feel closer to him than I ever have. I pray for those going through this.

[InnerGold]

If you're interested, InnerGold just completed our spouse treatment system, which is specifically written to help the spouses understand, educate themselves and heal themselves. It is extremely invaluable and several of the spouses who have used it so far have said it is the best thing they have ever found. We also used several spouses to create it so that we could capture the feelings that many go through. We understand the healing portion but they helped us bring in the emotional element.
I only mention it because it works! We will be uploading a video to help explain it more thoroughly later today.

[clarissa]

I can't even convey to you how sorry I am for what you are going through. I have been through a similar situation where my loved one was--and still is--addicted to pornography and masturbation and I thought the pain I felt would kill me. I still really struggle with how much it hurts me.
My heart bleeds for you and I hope so much that you can find the comfort you need. Please get whatever kind of help that could help you both; therapy through the Church, talking with the bishop, or whatever you need to do that will help you get to a healthier emotional state. Being married to a porn addict has such devastating effects and creates wounds that cut into our souls. I wish I knew how to help.

[InnerGold]

Clarrissa that is exactly why we created the treatment manual for loved ones and spouses. Spouses need just as much healing, if not more. I would encourage you all to use our resources to find the healing you're seeking. We have a lot of FREE resources. We just want to help people find the joy they should have.