I am headed to the womens shelter shortly - Page 2

Prodigal_Son · #11 (**permalink**) 07-24-2009, 08:45 PM

Hmmmm... what are the rules up there about concealed weapon permits?

Palerider · #12 (**permalink**) 07-24-2009, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ServiceDogHandler

Thanks. I should be moving at the end of August. In the province I am in there are no stalking laws. So until he either contacts me, stops me in public or breaks into my house there is nothing the police can do. I think that is not right. There is a no contact order. They should be stopping him from doing this.

I have no idea how to make it stop either. I have moved into hiding once already. I have done everything the police, my lawyer, therpist and the womens shelter has told me to do. What else can I do to make him stop. I just want him out of my life. I am so tired of living in fear. I have been for 7yrs.

I hope you are safe.....when you move will he not be able to locate you????

ServiceDogHandler · #13 (**permalink**) 07-25-2009, 10:30 AM

I am home now. Didn't sleep a wink at the shelter. My head would not slow down. Nothing is missing from the house and there are no strange calls on the phone. So all is well. I doubt he is still in town, since he is living at his parents he has to account for his wearabouts. I feel much better and safe now too. Thanks for all the prayers and safety wishes. Makes me feel so much better that others are out there that care about what happens to me.

Yes when I move he will most likely find me agian. That is why I have to keep using the resources that are here to keep myself safe.

Dr T · #14 (**permalink**) 07-25-2009, 12:47 PM

Glad to read that you are safe now.

dazed-and-confused · #15 (**permalink**) 07-25-2009, 06:14 PM

So sorry about all of this. How long do you think you will need to be there? I agree that the shelter will be the biggest help to you in trying to resolve this situation. I pray that you are safe and left to your own life, without all this turmoil.

Gene · #16 (**permalink**) 09-07-2009, 01:21 PM

Whatever you do, don't take chances. Often times someone in the police or social service roll offers advise based on what they were taught in books only. You are in the best position to know what to do to portect youself. listen to yourself and follow your 1st instint. Its usually right.
Another idea or answer might be to move completely away from where anyone knows you and start over. Expensive and hard to do but you don't want to take chances with your life and safety...