Proper Dress

[Soul_Searcher]

I agree. And if people judge you, I would ask yourself whether you care about their opinion or not. If you dont want the hassle, wear something different. If you don't care what people think, good for you and wear what you want!

[Moksha]

Wonder if attendance would so up if people were allowed to wear whatever they are comfortable in?

[Soul_Searcher]

Originally Posted by Moksha

Wonder if attendance would so up if people were allowed to wear whatever they are comfortable in?

Very good point. We went to a church of England Easter service yesterday at a cathedral. It was lovely, people were wearing an array of different things. Shorts, socks and sandals did seem to prevail but there wasn't a 'look' like we have in our church. The diversity was refreshing.
I looked at everyone there and reflected, if any of these people were taken to task over their attire, I'm sure they would be mortally offended and upset that Christian people were more concerned with their dress than the fact they were there to worship.

They spoke of the resurrection, and praised God in their sandals, jeans, printed t-shirts, cassocks, skirts, trainers and baseball caps.

When I saw this it made me realise how much energy we waste on telling people how to look when we could be worshipping God instead.

[Soul_Searcher]

Can I also mention there were proabably close to 1000 people in that building. I think the possibilities would be endless Moksha!!!!!

[TheyCallMeMom]

Thanks for your input.. I thought proper dress, in and out of meetings, was something that we needed to be aware of.. just wasnt sure how to make sure I was following the rules..

Now that I know there arent any, shopping will be much easier.. so are the garments optional as well? or do you only wear them to the temple etc?

[Soul_Searcher]

If you go to the temple you are supposed to wear them all the time for the rest of your life. Altho I have heard rumours of people being given more of a choice in how and when they wear them. Obviously they are optional in that you have agency but from the churches point of view you will not to the temple, or heaven for that matter, if you dont wear them.

[TheyCallMeMom]

now I am really confused.. there are rules, there are no rules.. does anyone have concrete info on this matter? I know we have our own agency.. I guess maybe I need some links to prophet talks in regards to dress.. and what the Church asks of us

[Hemidakota]

Originally Posted by TheyCallMeMom

I am curious about dress.. its not a subject that has been discussed fully with me but I do have a pretty good understanding..

After seeing a pic of a member who was born and raised in the church, in a tank top today I was reminded that as I will be reaching my year mark I will need to know more do's and donts..

I am aware that anything showing the garments is a no no.. but are their other "rules" or suggestions.. for both my husband and myself, that we may not have been made aware of

Thanks

I use to wear tank tops to the beach or swim attire but not around others. We should dress appropriately in not revealing body parts or give impression of flirtation of the body. For those who do wear temple garments, should ensure it is covered properly and not to be revealing.

When we dress for the temple or Sunday services, it should be in the best attire as possible in meeting the Savior if He was to be in attendance. Our dress should not be one of opulence in calling ourselves above others.

[Hemidakota]

Originally Posted by TheyCallMeMom

now I am really confused.. there are rules, there are no rules.. does anyone have concrete info on this matter? I know we have our own agency.. I guess maybe I need some links to prophet talks in regards to dress.. and what the Church asks of us

Church News:

BYU GROUP REVIEWS CODE, STANDARDS 13

Date: 10/27/90

Brigham Young University Pres. Rex E. Lee has formed a 15-member ad hoc committee to review BYU's Honor Code and Dress and Grooming Standards.

"We feel strongly that our Honor Code and Dress and Grooming Standards contribute significantly to the spiritual, moral and intellectual development of our campus community," Pres. Lee said.

"There are some aspects of the code and standards that are value-based and doctrinally founded, and they will not change," he said.

"At the same time, as new issues emerge and dress modes and behaviors evolve, we see a need to update our standards so the committee can address these changes," the president explained.

Pres. Lee appointed R.J. Snow, Student Life vice president, to chair the committee, which has been charged to have its recommendations to the President's Council by the end of November. Ultimately, the Board of Trustees will review and approve any changes.

The committee will look at the substance of the code and standards.

Modesty
in Robert D. Hales, Ensign, 2008, Aug.
... here in mortality and in the eternities that will follow. Modesty in Dress for Church Meetings When we attend a Church meeting, our ... their “in your face” independence from modest, conservative dress codes and traditions. Then I would observe that,...

The Temple Garment: “An Outward Expression of an Inward Commitment”
in Carlos E. Asay, Ensign, 1997, Aug.
...to the gospel. There are some who would welcome a detailed dress code answering every conceivable question about the wearing..., a protective covering for the body, and a symbol of the modesty of dress and living that should characterize the lives of all ...

[Connie]

The below is from this resource put out by the church: LDS.org - Family Table of Contents - True to the Faith

“Modesty,” True to the Faith, (2004),106–8

Modesty is an attitude of humility and decency in dress, grooming, language, and behavior. If you are modest, you do not draw undue attention to yourself. Instead, you seek to “glorify God in your body, and in your spirit” (1 Corinthians 6:20; see also 1 Corinthians 6:19).

If you are unsure about whether your dress or grooming is modest, ask yourself, “Would I feel comfortable with my appearance if I were in the Lord’s presence?” You might ask yourself a similar question about your language and behavior: “Would I say these words or participate in these activities if the Lord were present?” Your honest answers to these questions may lead you to make important changes in your life. The following information will help you in your efforts to be modest.

Dress and Grooming

Prophets have always counseled us to dress modestly. This counsel is founded on the truth that the human body is God’s sacred creation. Respect your body as a gift from God. Through your dress and appearance, you can show the Lord that you know how precious your body is.

Your clothing expresses who you are. It sends messages about you, and it influences the way you and others act. When you are well groomed and modestly dressed, you can invite the companionship of the Spirit and exercise a good influence on those around you.

Central to the command to be modest is an understanding of the sacred power of procreation, the ability to bring children into the world. This power is to be used only between husband and wife. Revealing and sexually suggestive clothing, which includes short shorts and skirts, tight clothing, and shirts that do not cover the stomach, can stimulate desires and actions that violate the Lord’s law of chastity.

In addition to avoiding clothing that is revealing, you should avoid extremes in clothing, appearance, and hairstyle. In dress, grooming, and manners, always be neat and clean, never sloppy or inappropriately casual. Do not disfigure yourself with tattoos or body piercings. If you are a woman and you desire to have your ears pierced, wear only one pair of modest earrings.

Maintain high standards of modesty for all occasions. Do not lower your standards to draw attention to your body or to seek approval from others. True disciples of Jesus Christ maintain the Lord’s standard regardless of current fashions or pressure from others.

Language and Behavior

Like your dress and grooming, your language and behavior are expressions of your character. Your words and actions can have a profound influence on you and on others. Express yourself through clean, positive, uplifting language and in actions that bring happiness to those around you. Your efforts to be modest in word and deed lead to increased guidance and comfort from the Holy Ghost.

Avoid the filthy language and the casual, irreverent use of the Lord’s name that are so common in the world. Withstand any temptation to participate in extreme or inappropriate behavior. The irreverent nature of such language and behavior impairs your ability to receive the quiet promptings of the Holy Ghost.

Additional references: D&C 42:40–41; Articles of Faith 1:13