Language:
Welcome Guest Login or Signup » LOGOUT

Go Back   LDS Social Network Forums > LDS.NET Popular Forums > LDS Gospel Discussion

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 04:53 PM
Member
 
Join Date: May 2010
Location: United States -
Religion: Mormon / LDS / Christian
Posts: 97
Thanks: 9
Thanked 26 Times in 14 Posts
Laughs: 0
Laughs at 7 Times in 2 Posts
Default Question for past and/or present Bishops/Stake presidents

Current Church policy is that if an individual has been promiscuous with one or several partners for an extended period of time outside of marriage they are ineligible for missionary service . Is this a recent change (last 10-15 years)?
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 05:08 PM
Vort's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: United States -
Religion: Mormon / LDS / Christian
Posts: 9,291
Thanks: 1,939
Thanked 6,893 Times in 3,367 Posts
Laughs: 519
Laughs at 2,845 Times in 1,116 Posts
Default

I am not a past or present leader, so I'm not who you asked your question to. Still...

When I went on my mission in the early 1980s, I was told that missionary service was prohibited for young men who:
  • Had engaged in homosexual activity
  • Had impregnated a woman, regardless of the outcome of the pregnancy
  • Had been involved in procuring an elective abortion for someone
  • Had engaged in extensive promiscuous behavior, especially with multiple women but also long-term with the same woman

How true is this? Don't know. Guess I'm just adding gossip to your question.
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 06:20 PM
saintish
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

My understanding (according to the 2006 CHI) is that anyone who:

Has been married

been involved in homosexual activity after during there last three teenage (must get an HIV test from a professional)

a women who has been pregnant or a man who has fathered a child

someone who has fornicated many times with one parter or with multiple parters



Should not be recommended for a mission and should only ask for 1st presidency exceptions in rare instances (in other words it will likely be turned down.)

Last edited by saintish; 06-27-2011 at 06:49 PM. Reason: misquote
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 06:41 PM
pam's Avatar
pam pam is offline
Head Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 1999
Location: United States -
Religion: Mormon / LDS / Christian
Posts: 45,441
Thanks: 6,691
Thanked 12,656 Times in 7,690 Posts
Laughs: 3,785
Laughs at 8,909 Times in 4,019 Posts
Default

Quote:
anyone infected with HIV
If true I hope this isn't just a blanket disqualification. Many are infected without the sharing of needles or sex.

I would hope even serving closer to home would be an option for anyone with this.
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 06:48 PM
saintish
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

i'm sorry that is a misquote, i suppose i should have read it before quoting from memory.

Actually its anyone who has engaged in homosexual activity must get an HIV test

Glad you caught that pam, again sorry for any confusion.
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 06-27-2011, 06:52 PM
dahlia's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: United States -
Religion: Mormon / LDS / Christian
Posts: 1,154
Thanks: 417
Thanked 774 Times in 390 Posts
Laughs: 220
Laughs at 229 Times in 100 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by pam View Post
If true I hope this isn't just a blanket disqualification. Many are infected without the sharing of needles or sex.

I would hope even serving closer to home would be an option for anyone with this.
I had several women clients who had been infected by their husbands. Bad news on many levels.
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 06-28-2011, 02:04 PM
sixpacktr's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: United States -
Religion: Mormon / LDS / Christian
Posts: 1,472
Thanks: 373
Thanked 290 Times in 174 Posts
Laughs: 111
Laughs at 116 Times in 46 Posts
Default

It all gets down to intent and frequency. A YM/YW that has messed up just once and then came forward, or at least stopped, tried to make things right, and then came forward will be treated better than those that have a long-term sexual relationship with one partner or with multiple partners. That type of behavior implies more than being out late one night and being stupid, it implies a level of rebelliousness that is hard to overlook. That doesn't mean that they cannot be forgiven, and indeed can and will be if they come forward and repent, but since they must go out and teach the law of chastity to those seeking baptism, as well as obedience to the words of the prophets, it may be hard for them to do so.

As for the homosexual activity, the same standard applies, except if any activity occurred in the late teen years, then there is a different issue altogether, and putting the person in a situation where they have to be around their companion 100% of the time just seems a tad unfair if they are struggling with SSA.
__________________
That would not be difficult to express. I found most helpful to me was going to my knees thanking my HF for life, for experience, for my family, and then directly asking him to go before my face, to be on my right hand, to be on my left hand, and his spirit in my heart, and his angels round about me to bear me up. --Thomas S. Monson, Feb 4 2008 News conference upon becoming President of the LDS church.

Hard work won’t kill you, but why take the chance??
---Motto of the Democrat Party
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 09:28 AM.

New Posts

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2013, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.1.0



TERMS & CONDITIONS | HELP | CONTACT US | INVITE | RSS FEEDS | ABOUT US | GET INVOLVED | ARCHIVE
*** LDS Social Network ***
More Good Foundation. All rights reserved.

Header art used by permission of Mark Mabry and Reflections of Christ.

LDS.Net is not owned by or affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (sometimes called the Mormon Church or LDS Church). The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the More Good Foundation. For the official Church websites, please visit LDS.org and Mormon.org.