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Old 04-28-2012, 07:55 PM
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After being in a marriage for over 5 years, married to a spouse who is a sex addict, I've decided to set sail on another ship. I'm exhausted, mentally and physically from all the wrong choices he has made that have affected our marriage. He has not shown any signs of improvement. He talks down to me and our two children when he certainly has no room to speak. I'm tired of it. Tired of hurting. Tired of the cycle he puts us threw. Ugh. Now where to go from here. All I can do now is turn this hurt and pain over to the Lord and have Him guide me. I don't know where we (my daughters and I) will go, or what I'm going to do from here. I have a college degree. I can get a job, but I hate the thought of having my girls in day care when I've been the one caring for them since they were born. A lot of things are about to change and I pray and hope things will look up soon...
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Old 04-28-2012, 08:17 PM
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Been there done that. While the financial part was tough..emotionally I finally saw light at the end of the proverbial tunnel.

I wish you the best of luck.
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Old 04-28-2012, 08:19 PM
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Thanks, Pam. I need all the luck I can get right now.
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It is hard but oh so worth it. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Good luck to you. I wish you the best.
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I think you also need to follow your avatar.
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I'm trying Pam. Trying to have faith about what the future has enstored for us. I'm nervous, but I know it will all work out.
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I'm trying Pam. Trying to have faith about what the future has enstored for us. I'm nervous, but I know it will all work out.
Totally understandable about being nervous. It's a huge life change. It's scary. You'll have more responsibilities at times than you will know what to do with or how to handle. I'm not saying that to frighten you. Just being realistic as someone that has been there. But you are right. It will all work out. Just keep the faith.
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Just a clarifying point that "JaneDoe" is NOT the wife of our head moderator "JohnDoe".
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TWO Jane Does? What are the odds?
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