Children and anatomically correct dolls

[Bini]

I was on Etsy window shopping and came across these adorable made-to-order soft sculpture dolls. From the product photos, you can't tell that these dolls are anatomically correct, however, if you read the item description, it states:

The body is made with a stretch knit and premium quality poly-fill then lightly stuffed with BB's for a natural feel. Baby’s face is soft sculptured for a realistic look, and also the limbs, bellybutton and toushie. Ears are sculpted then sewn on as well as the little penis and testies. The hair is made out of fake fur that can be brushed and styled. Baby has painted on closed eyes.

I was a bit taken by surprise but not offended, and after some thought, I'd still buy one. The dolls are intended as toys for children aged 4 and up. They really are cute, in fact, one of the display dolls looks just like my daughter.. Haha. So how do you feel about children and anatomically correct dolls?

[Jennarator]

I think that if you get one, get one from the start. Other wise is is new and something that will require qa little most explanation. Get one early and it will be no big deal. Just make sure it stays modest unless the child is changing it's clothes. I think dolls are a good way to teach modesty and biology. I just think the doll should be treated with modesty and respect as to teach a child such. Not that the child can't change it. I know little children that help change real babies diapers. I don't really see a difference. As long as the child gets simple child appropriate and honest (no silly answers) when questions come up. I see it as no big deal.

[Dravin]

Other wise is is new and something that will require qa little most explanation.

That isn't necessarily a bad thing though, being new can mean questions and it's a perfect opportunity to discuss and go over the things you talk about in the rest of your post such as biology, modesty, and appropriate behavior.

[applepansy]

I guess I'm old fashioned. I agree with what Jennarator has said. Dravin too.

However, I wouldn't buy one. There are other ways to teach anatomy and respect for our bodies.

[Suzie]

Children are very smart, I think a lot of people underestimate them. I don't see anything wrong with the doll and yes I would buy one.

[Bini]

Suzie, I agree. I think sometimes, perhaps more often than not, parents underestimate their children :]

[applepansy]

Originally Posted by Bini

Suzie, I agree. I think sometimes, perhaps more often than not, parents underestimate their children :]

Not only parents, but most adults. Children hear everything we say and see everything we do.

[anatess]

There are tons of cute dolls out there. I had different collections growing up - including a Raggedy Ann collection, a Barbie Collection, and a ceramic collection complete with glass cases. I don't really care to teach my kids anatomy through a doll. And not at age 0 at any rate. They'll learn it when it's time for them to learn it just like how we all learned it... through natural curiousity and an open environment where questions are welcome and satisfactory answers are given.

I guess it's in the same reverence that I treat private parts with the reverence I treat God. I wouldn't think of getting my kid a toy Jesus...

[shdwlkr]

First the doll is a good way for children to understand boys and girls are different period.
Second if you let your child help change another sibling and they are different there are going to be questions that need answers anyway
Third use the correct names for different parts of the body no matter where they are!!
Fourth I think more adults are offended by anatomically correct dolls then the kids are.
Fifth just how many of you with small children of different sexes have not seen each other naked at some point?

[Backroads]

my friend had one when... well, I can't remember, but we were very young. I thought they were so fascinating and very much like a real baby. I really wanted one, but they were expensive at the Quilted Bear.

In other words, even as a small child, perversion was the last thing on my mind. They were "just like real babies!" and that was cool to me and that was that.

Personally, I think they're just fine for kids. I mean, kids understand the gender differences if they're around other little kids--I distinctly remembering having serious compare-and-contrast conversations with my brothers when we were pretty darn young.

Yeah, a few kids find it hilariuos and make potty jokes, but I think most of those jokes are developmentally normal.

If a child is seriously disturbed by the dolls, something else is wrong.