Amber I'm SO sorry to hear this! You guys will definitely be in my prayers. Let me know if there's anything I can do, even if you just need to take a break and breathe, you're always welcome to hang out with me.
“Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don’t judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn’t handle something the way we might have hoped." Elder Marvin J. Ashton