My girlfriend waited for me and we married soon after my mission was completed.
Yes, my mission president ALSO said that she wouldn't wait for me. Yes, he wanted me to focus... but if you knew me, you'd know that I was already focused.
For all missionaries, I'll quote "Best Two Years": Your girlfriend won't wait for you. Your wife will.
In your letters, share testimony and church stories. Your missionary should be writing about his experiences, NOT how much he misses you. That's okay for a signature close, but not for an entire letter. He should write about what he's learning, his companions, his triumphs and struggles. Keep your letters talking about his mission and you'll grow together while you're apart.
If they're more "lovey-dovey" then they'll quickly get boring and you will probably move on to someone else... who is more interesting!
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