In love with an inactive member?

[Bini]

You can't "fix" or "save" people. I'm sure you know that :]


But you can't give-up hope either and wanting to "help" someone is a wonderful trait. If only more people had the desire, passion and patience to do it. Like others have mentioned, continue to invite him to Church activities etc etc but don't be pushy about it. If he declines, he declines. And sometimes with the perseverance of a friend, people do change and not because they're forced to but because they want to. Sometimes our brothers and our sisters need a little nudge to find their way.


Oh and note, I emphasize on "friend"!

[foreverafter]

Just remember, It's impossible to love & stay faithful to a spouse forever, if we can't love & stay faithful to God.

[silvermoon]

Think about your ultimate goals in life and what you are doing personally to achieve them. If temple marriage is on the list, than obviously this guy isn't the one for you. You only love those you spend time with and serve. So, just be smart about it. Don't spend alone time with someone who will detract you from a better choice in the future.