Is there something wrong with me?

[Dravin]

Nope, not a single date.

[will227457]

wow you guys depress me....

ok to the OP, this may not be what you want to hear but sometimes you need to hear it you may be "wierd" thats ok in the church sometimes people grow up secluded from the "real" world and what a girls expectations are.

this may sound crass but what you need are some confidance building excercises.....

1. Find a singles ward
2. Look for the girl who has never been asked out (you should be able to spot her I know I can when I go to a new ward)
3. briefly chat and ask her out (unless you are a real goober she will say yes)
4. Don't be a typical cheap mormon....take her some place nice and YOU pay!!
5. if you are nice, polite, and make conversation you will have a successful date and maybe even get a kiss
6. Move on to the next girl repeat this process 5-10 time till you build up your confidance.

I guess my point is don't shoot for the stars on your first attempt....shallow yes, maybe even a little mean, but you need to learn to talk to women, flirt and communicate....by taking out a girl that is (less desirable) you will make her feel great about herself and improve your self confidance in the process....start there and work your way up the ladder....

just a piggish suggestion...

[talisyn]

Will's suggestion is good in a way, because those girls can be just awesome. There's a lot to be said for a sweet spirit. But if you go about it exactly like he said then you pretty much get what you deserve.

BTW I was never asked out when I went to the single's ward. Never ever for 4 solid years. Seriously questioning my level of attractiveness when I met my daughter's dad who totally fell for me. It'll happen to you, and when it does it'll be worth it