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Drummer_Jay · #1 (**permalink**) 05-13-2004, 07:07 PM

this is actually more for the ladies, becuase well my problem deals with one and since guys dont understand them im directing my question with them.

I have this friend who i have been freinds with awhile she told me she was going to get "high" but i talked her out of it. Now she's mad at me and wont talk and all that crap that follows. So like what am i supposed to do now.

Luzia · #2 (**permalink**) 05-13-2004, 07:43 PM

Be patient.
Everything falls for their own weight.

Drummer_Jay · #3 (**permalink**) 05-13-2004, 08:44 PM

i dont understand

shanstress70 · #4 (**permalink**) 05-21-2004, 07:19 AM

I don't understand that either!

It sounds like you have your head screwed on straight, but a lot of young people do not. If your friend is mad at you, it is her loss. Be confident that you did the right thing. Maybe you should hang out with people who have more in common with you (ie, don't want to get high).

cedar · #5 (**permalink**) 05-26-2004, 02:29 PM

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Originally posted by Drummer_Jay@May 13 2004, 06:07 PM
this is actually more for the ladies, becuase well my problem deals with one and since guys dont understand them im directing my question with them.

I have this friend who i have been freinds with awhile she told me she was going to get "high" but i talked her out of it. Now she's mad at me and wont talk and all that crap that follows. So like what am i supposed to do now.

Do youlike this girl or something? Sounds like you wish you would have let her be, that way you could have reached 1st base.

Lindy · #6 (**permalink**) 05-31-2004, 02:31 AM

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Originally posted by Drummer_Jay@May 13 2004, 05:07 PM
I have this friend who i have been freinds with awhile she told me she was going to get "high" but i talked her out of it. Now she's mad at me and wont talk and all that crap that follows. So like what am i supposed to do now.

Ok....WHY is she mad at you? Because she didn't get high? Did she think that she missed out on something or what?

LADodger2112 · #7 (**permalink**) 06-04-2004, 08:09 AM

You IDIOTS! This is HER friend not HER GIRLFRIEND! If you would listen to her message, you'd understand this! She distinctly says MY FRIEND! Gosh I get so frustrated with you people!

DisRuptive1 · #8 (**permalink**) 06-10-2004, 08:13 PM

She probably wanted to fit in or look cool for some one she was attracted to. She probably sees you as telling her that you want her to look different, like an outcast or something, by not doing stuff with everybody else. Some people just want to be normal.

Kevin · #9 (**permalink**) 07-05-2004, 04:26 PM

Perhaps she's feeling guilty about having to be talked out of getting high. PErhaps she feels that you think you're better than her because you don't do drugs. Not that she'd have reason to think these things but they could be the reasons for the strange behaviour.

#10 (**permalink**) 07-05-2004, 09:16 PM

I would do 2 things. I would first....stand my ground and stick to good sense...

I would then be a supportive friend in all good things your friend does so that she learns to trust you....and even respect and maybe even follow your example...