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Posted On: 01/08/2008 23:13:41
I love to read. I read about a book a week. Sometimes I read fiction, other times history and of course my scriptures and other books regarding the church and church history.

Lately I have taken to reading the forums here at LDS Talk. I find that there are some very intelligent people here making posts from a wide variety of topics. Some very interesting and others very boring. There are great intellectual discussions on science and religion. Some on belief and non belief, knowledge and faith.

I find it hard to believe that someone would come here for personal relationship advice or how to on dating and all those things. I am amazed that someone would come here and ask how to deal with a spouse with substance abuse problems or addiction problems. Remember that the people that are here do not have any special skills to help you with your problems. True they may have had their own experience and can share how they felt but it is not necessarily how you should feel. They don't know you or the other half of your relationship. Advice without hearing both parties side to any matter is just asking for an opinion on how you feel but cannot reflect true advice on the situation since only half the story is known.

Phew that was a lot said.

Life is good. I find most things in my life as great. I have a wife of 30 years. Children that love me and come to me for advice. Interesting how they want the advice now that they are between 28 and 22 years old but try to give it to them when they were 16. smile.gif

Two lovely granddaughters that love spending time with Papa.

I work when I want. Fish when I want and spend lots of time with good friends. It is said that laughter lengthens your life. If that is true I will live to be over 100.

Big weekend this weekend. Family and friends in town for the BYU vs UNLV football game. Should be a good game for BYU. As bad as they are this year UNLV is worse.

Lots of food and friends this weekend. Hope everyone has a good one.


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From: Lindy
11/07/2005 01:37:30
Glad to have you aboard Ben!
Have met a lot of very nice people on this site!

As for the asking for advice threads.... a lot of teenagers don't feel comfortable talking to people they know, and many don't know the hotline phone numbers to talk to someone they don't know. A lot of lds kids find their way here, and find some very good advice from some very good people...(those who respond are usually moms, dads, or priesthood holders) and I have seen excellent advice given to those who ask. If it is a serious problem, most will advise them to seek professional help... yes, there is the occasional crack pot entry...but the majority comes from good hearted people.

I think you will find a thread or two to try to help out on....you seem to have experience and intelligence... and when someone gets ahold of you and says "thank you for helping me figure things out" hey, it's worth everything in the world to know that you have helped someone that was hurting inside.

Anyway.....once again...welcome back to the board!


From: lisajo
11/04/2005 18:24:34
I think the reason many ask advice like that is to see if anyone else has gone threw what they have ...and hopefully share that with them ( on how they dealt with it) I know as a woman many times when i have dealt with something it was nice to talk with some one who went threw something similar wink.gif They may not be in the position to give advice a counselor may, but it is always nice to talk to some one besides a proffesional



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