After a conversation with the Bishop, my wife and I have come to the following decision:  I will with her to the church of her choice one Sunday a month, she will come with me to the Ward I have been attending once a month.  That last part was initially overlooked in our agreement, I pointed out the "marriage math" involved with me going with her 2x a month, and her never coming with me... she eventually realized that was not equitable.

Anyway, she won't let Church members come over to the house, I meet with the elders in my den when I work at home, or in the evenings.  I kept my end of our agreement last Sunday and can't wait to get back to the Ward this Sunday (whew!)  I am not going to push the Mrs. at all - invite, keep my end of the deal, and go from there.

Now for the great news - I've set a baptism date, March 28.  I'm really looking forward to that day.

I have come to know that this Church IS the true Church of Jesus Christ.  I feel like I have wasted so many years flailing around, and have at last found a spiritual home.

Thank you to all here who encouraged me to press on...